I love you Grandma Facchini...

I just love my grandma more than words. There are too many memories to even begin to share...but my mind is full of love and thankfulness, when I reflect on the past. My childhood....growing up into adulthood I've been so blessed with such a fun, funny, loving and kind grandparents. My grandma always welcomed me with a kiss and hug. Each time I saw her was a good time. Even if it was just sitting with her talking with the ball game in the background or having tea and sharing a goodie from Starbucks. It didn't matter the occasion or visit, it felt good. It always felt good being around her. She made me laugh and my heart smile. I really don't remember a time I argued with her? I know there were a few times we had serious talks, but she always seemed so understanding. She always showed me love. I was her oldest grandchild and we had a close bond. She made each one of her grandkids feel special...and her great grandkids too. She had six kids and she loved them so much. Each of them loved her so much too and it was so amazing to see all of them come together to help care for her over these last few months. My grandpa is amazing. Watching him care for her & continue to love her until her last breath, was the sweetest and most compassionate thing I've ever seen. My sweet grandma went to Heaven on the morning of October 23, 2013...Now she can rest in paradise and will not have to suffer or feel any more pain. No more cancer. No more medicine. Just the wonderful rest & eternal life with Jesus....freedom!!! I cry because I miss her...I cry because I love her. She will forever be in my heart and my memory...so I may cry at random for the rest of my life missing her...until I see her again in Heaven.

Thank you grandma for being so sweet to me....thank you for being you! I will blow you kisses to Heaven, since I can't kiss your cheeks right now!

I love you.....Nicole

Grandma Facchini and my cousin Lauren at Pete & Leslie's house! Summer time:)

Chemo: Complete. Radiation: Up next!

Hello everyone! It's been a LONG while since I've updated this...due to chemo being such a LONG process. I was mostly in bed & doing treatments...just praying to get through it all!!! Chemo finally ended on Oct.14, 2013 PRAISE THE LORD!!! It was a surprise for me actually, because I was supposed to have 16 treatments, but Dr. Wang decided 14 was enough! Due to my feet/hands having severe pain, from the neuropathy, I was told NOT to continue....so I graduated early, yippee! Crystal my sister was with me, so I was very happy to celebrate with her:) I also went to a celebration lunch with my Mom...we both cried tears of joy when I saw her with my certificate of completion. Chemo was very hard on not only me, but everyone taking care of me. Thank you Mom & Rick...my husband Daniel...and sweet daughters, Tasia & Mahllie. I couldn't have made it without you guys. Thank you Crystal for all your help being my sister, friend and financial advocate. Emily, my dear friend, you helped me so much as you battle cancer yourself...thank you for being there. And to everyone that took time to text, write, call & visit me during treatments. I needed you all!

I'm now resting and trying to recover, from all the side effects of chemo, before I start radiation. I will get a total of 4 weeks off before radiation starts on (Monday) 11/4.......I went to a scanning last week- were they took a CT scan mapping out exactly places where radiation will take place. Only on my left side, under my arm & left breast area. They also placed 3 tattoos...small dots (on both sides, and the center of my chest) so that it will align perfectly each session. I plan to have 35 treatments (5 days/week for 7 weeks). Chemo was to prevent any caner cells from forming in my my body, after they removed the tumors during surgery. Radiation targets exactly where the cancer was found, as an additional form of prevention from cancer returning to my body. It will have some side effects, but nothing like chemo. I've been told that you feel fatigue, and later during treatment I could suffer skin irritation and possible muscle bruising. I feel like after 14 chemo sessions, I can make it!!! lol.

Next week I see Dr. Wang on 10/28 to make sure I'm healing okay from chemo, then on 10/30 I have a mammogram on my right side to make sure everything is okay. I pray there is no concerns.

I'm still going to physical therapy twice a week to help with the range of motion, pain, and swelling in my left arm. I really enjoy my Italian Physical Therapist (Maggy) she's helped me so much, plus her sense of humor makes me laugh. She really enjoys giving my husband a bad time. Everyone there likes him...he's the only one I know that gets offered coffee w/ cream when he walk in the clinic lol. Only him!

I will try to keep you all posted more frequently! Thank you again everyone for all the prayers and love. I pray that God protects me for any severe side effects and radiation goes smoothly:)

XO

Nicole

10/10

Laying in bed watching Love & Basketball while my toes dry (painted them orange to match my fingernails). I keep painting them over and over because my nails are turning black from Chemo:( There are so many crazy side effects!! It's amazing God gives my body the strength to endure the poison of Chemotherapy killing cancer cells. Overall I'm doing quite well...and I'm so grateful.

On Monday, 7/1 I will have my last of the BIG round, of chemo!! Then Tuesday, 7/2 is my last injection (to increase blood count). I'm so happy because that really makes my legs and body ache bad. I will then wait a few weeks to start my weekly phase 2 of chemo (12 weeks)...should end by October (seems a long way out) but at least I'm going through these treatments during summer when the sun shines and it's gorgeous. I think it would be hard to start treatments in the winter when it's all cold and rainy. My birthday is July 16th so that week I'm going to take OFF! Mycle Wastman is performing that week in Seattle (free concert) during lunch by Westlake that my mom is going to take me too! I just love hearing him perform.

I'm so happy to be engaged to a wonderful man, Daniel Carter Jr.! He got down on one knee today and asked me to marry him. He said come here (I was laying down on bed) so I sat up and pushed myself over to him...he got down on one knee and said, "You know I love you right?" I said,"Yes, I do and I love you"...then he said, "Will you marry me?" I said, "YES!!!!!!!" of course I'm so in love with him he just completes me. We are planning a wedding for 10.10.14 on the beach in Hawaii (with receptions to follow-one in WA and one in CA due to the fact we have such large families living in both places). I want to get married on 10.10 because Daniel is my number 1, my ACE, my best friend and he's my 10/10 so it's a perfect day!!!

It's always been my dream to get married on the beach:) White linen flowing in the sunshine...beautiful blue water and warm breeze. My kids in their all white holding tropical bouquets and my mom/dad/my sister Crystal and bro in law Eric/Plus his family smiling standing with us. Simple. Less is More. Then we can all have a few days to snorkel and body surf all enjoying each other-then we can fly to another island for our honeymoon and just relax. Life is so good. Even today, I can dream. I dream about being healthy and enjoying my married life...and family. Having BBQ's and get together at our new home. Our family dog(s). Just that unconditional love & light enjoying our girls and raising them right.

It seems I'm always awake at 2am every since I had surgery. I'm not sure why but it could be the meds. I have to set my alarm to take my meds around the clock so I don't get sick. But my pain level never really goes below a 5 on a scale of 1-10, so its hard to sleep long periods of time. I'm still in physical therapy- which hurts, but it helps in the long run...I need my full range of motion back from my lymph nodes being removed. I never thought "numb" meant "pain". When the surgeon's were telling me what to expect they would use the word numbness. It means PAIN! lol. I'm working through it and I'm getting better each day...just takes time. I will be very happy when my pain level goes down. All these medications are hard on my body.

I love all the support I get! I can't thank you all enough- it's like each day God sends someone to encourage me in some way and it works! I never go a day without someone encouraging me. I love it! The Fight. Pray. WIN! is a true movement and I pray it continues so I can encourage others battling a disease. I'm working on getting trademark & non-profit paperwork going with the help of some amazing ladies. I know God put me here in this place for a reason. I have a purpose in life to get the victory of the people (my name means Nicole: Victory of the People) so I know my testimony will save lives and souls. My testimony will help people that don't have much support and give them hope. I pray daily for God's strength and he never fails me. Since day one I've had peace. Regardless of all the pain and tears, my peace is strong. I thank Him for my peace. I know he will heal my body and cure me of cancer! I have the FAITH! I thank him for prayer...I'm in my bible so much and praying so much-it truly helps me.

Never take your health or life for granted! Take time to enjoy the beauty of this world God gives us. Take time to look at flowers and appreciate them. Take time to hug your kids and/or parents and tell them you love them. This hurtle in my life has really taught me to lean on God 100% and to love harder and live!!! I love flowers people bring me and cards they send. It's all so loving and needed. He sends the sunshine to warm me and he provides excellent doctor's that call to just check on me to see how I'm feeling. He provides money that I don't have a way of making...always right on time. He never fails me. Thank you Jesus for my life, for my family and for never leaving my side:)

XO

Nicole

Oh Happy Day!

Oh happy Day! 

(Still camera ready-no hair, don't care)

To order hat: www.watakeover.com

XO

Nicole

What's the 411 hun?

It's been a while since I've given a TRUE update. Here's a quick one:)

How am I doing? Where are you at in treatment? Is there anything you NEED? Let's just say no matter what I give all Glory to God each day for bringing me through. It's not easy. No matter how strong I look behind this Internet, in person or writing this...God is my strength 100% and I couldn't do a day of this without him carrying me through.


1.  Chemotherapy 

One word: Sucks. I'm half way through the "hard part" so they say....

Phase one: Adriamycin + Cytoxan every two weeks for 4 treatments

(after each treatment I will return the following day, to get an injection to help increase my white blood cells count) I've done 2 treatments (PRAISE THE LORD) and have my next scheduled for 6/17 at 9:45am followed by the injection on 6/18 11am...PRAY FOR ME!! These are extremely hard for me to take. I'm very weak and feel horrible during this week of treatment, so I need all the prayers going up :) Thank you! 

Phase Two: Taxol weekly for 12 weeks They say my hair will start to grow back during this phase and that it won't cause me to be quite as nausea. There is chance of my hands & feet becoming tingly or numb, so pray this doesn't happen.

2. Physical Therapy

I attend Summit Physical Therapy twice a week with Maggy to work on range of motion for my left arm. Surgery- removing 14 lymph nodes has left me with a very painful arm that doesn't have much range of motion. I need this to be 100% by the time I have radiation which is after chemo. Maggy is awesome, she really helps my self esteem and works with me to get my range back. I do massage therapy and then stretch to see where my numbers are at each time. Then, I work with an assistant on a variety of stretches and exercise that help me improve. This helps my pain level and stiffness.

3. Radiation

This comes later...after chemo I will get 4 weeks off to heal before I start 35 radiation sessions. My prayers for this would be to not get lymphoma, which can happen since I had lymph nodes removed. It would cause my arm to swell. I pray that I don't have or will ever get signs of lymphoma. AMEN!! 

4. Overall health

I'm doing well considering everything I'm going through physically. I have minor side effects from chemo (being nausea- but controlling it with great meds- runny nose and eyes (common from chemo) my eyes are sensitive to light, dizzy at times, & very fatigue. My white blood count gets extremely low after the first week so I'm mostly in the house...I don't take many trips out (I hate the car anyways-makes me feel sick and dizzy) unless I really need to for appointment or something small. I'm eating okay and always drinking lots of water and tea:) My hair is falling out daily and it kind of hurts...I would shave it but due to infections I'm not going to use the clippers. My spirits are good...especially today since I finally feel better. But I've never had to go to hospital or be in hospital during chemo, no fevers, no severe side effects.

I do cry a lot even though I don't like too...sometimes it's all I can express. Maybe all the years of "not" crying are being let out. I pray and read the Bible daily...I pray for others (I have a huge prayer wall). I've met some really good friends online and in person over the last month that are true angels. Cameron and Emily are a few to name...both check on me regularly and are the most positive people, they really help me daily. God works in mysterious ways...I'm thankful for everyone that makes me smile rep'n Fight! Pray! Win! in some way. I think I get at least one a day and it's so inspires me. 

5. My Mom

She is my light. I don't know what I would do without her unconditional love and patience. She's always checking on me and making sure that I'm okay. She makes me laugh when I need too, and cry when she prays for me. She will drop everything and hold my hand...if I'm doing bad. She gives rides to all my appointments, waits no matter how long, & never complains and is always positive trying to help. She helps not just me, but my girls. Get to and from school (we are so happy is OUT) and doing other things to keep them busy and happy. She's the best grandma they could ask for! I love my mom dearly and I'm so thankful for her each second of the day.

6. Donations 

I'm so thankful for everything I get...God knows exactly what is needed and seems to provide. You can pass the website for ordering T-shirts & bands (or order one yourself) lol. Here's the links you can pass around if you feel lead too. God really is providing everything! Tanks tops coming soon for summer (saving Hoodie's for fall) and another new band coming soon!!! 

Blog: http://fightpraywin.blogspot.com/

Website: www.fightpraywin.com

Donations: http://www.gofundme.com/fightpraywin

7. I'm in love with Daniel & you never know....I might just be married sooner then later.

Until next time, 

XO 

Nicole

Lights On

It’s okay…you can turn the lights on

My body isn’t broken at the moment

I can feel my eyes aren’t gone

My back isn’t heavy and I can sit up in bed

My neck isn’t broken from that weight that’s

Been chillin’ on my head

Its okay…. you can turn the lights on

My fingers don’t’ shake and

My mouth isn’t resistant to taste

My eyes aren’t watering and my nose doesn’t drip

You can see the twinkle in my eye

Just look don’t you see it?

I can feel my stomach and it doesn’t hurt

My legs don’t feel like they are going to burst

It’s okay…. you can turn the lights on

My hair keeps coming out & I’m counting the strands

I’m wiping always each hair that takes a stand

It’s like telling me chemo is working people say

Each time I take my hand and wipe 100 away

My face is smooth and my cheeks smile in peaks

It’s okay…you can turn the lights on

My arm doesn’t’ need gauze and my throat doesn’t throb

My breathing is even better can’t you hear my air runs long?

I don’t have to say ouch, I can say I feel better instead

My body doesn’t hurt and my eyes don’t have that look of dread

It’s okay…you can turn the lights on

God’s healed my wounds this time, praying on bended knee

He’s cradled me like I’m just 6lbs of baby

I’m getting better now from his Holy wave of healing

So it’s okay, you can turn the lights on now.

XO 

12:55am (right before my 1am meds...sitting here with every light on in my room including a candle:)

Nicole

Miracles

I've been praying for a miracle. I didn't tell anyone specifically what it was really, just between me and God. I kept telling Him that I would let everyone know it was Him performing this miracle and give ALL credit and glory to HIM! I really started to make myself believe it was going to work. I had set up a perfect miracle, why not?? After all that I'm suffering thought, just this one simple thing? Pleeeeaase??? Well...my hair was the miracle. I wanted it to grow during chemo. I thought it would stump the doctors and nurses and I wanted to see their faces as my hair got longer and not shorter. 

This morning was hard because when I was getting out of my bath I was taking the towel upward on my hair and it was all coming out. Tons of little hairs everywhere. WAIT!!! My miracle...I wanted just that one thing!! Pleaaaseee!! My tears have not stopped all day. I felt like God was telling me that He's in charge not me. I understand that and respect it, I was still heartbroken. It's like you know you can ask for some special gift from your parents and they know you want it, and you know it's impossible for them to come through, but you just put it out there just in case??? Well, I put mine out there. And he reminded me of two miracles I witnessed at chemo...live miracles walking and sitting and talking with me. 

Dorothy. My new friend. She's a living miracle, better than any piece of hair on my head. Her story i can't even remember it all, but let's just say the last two years have turned her world upside down and she's been told twice we wouldn't live during the night. She's a true miracle!!! We sat and chatted during our treatments. She's a stand offish type person, but I smiled and said hi anyways. She told me she had breast cancer and bone cancer. There was no way to get cured, but they were keeping the cancer from spreading into her blood. She had over 30 tumors removed from her breast. She has a pace maker. She told me before this, she worked two jobs, sometimes three and was never sick. It's hard for her to lose her Independence similar to me. Even though we are ages apart, we have the same heart and life in us that wants to move and be healthy. I gave her my bracelets "Fight. Pray. Win." and she put them both on right away. We talked and laughed as we exchanged numbers. I gave her a hard time not being able to text message and she laughed. I told her I would check on her from time to time since she was alone. He two nieces took care of her, but it's nice to have someone going through something similar as you even if it's a little different. I've already spoke to her twice over the phone and I'm a "snail mail" person if you know me. I've got a card in the mail to her already. 

Sarah & Barb. As she was leaving treatment, she came up to me and asked me about my "Fight. Pray. Win." T-shirt. So I told her it was my blog and we sold shirts and bands on there regarding me fighting breast cancer. He daughter stood beside her and was holding a sweet baby (she was a nanny) and they both told be about their cancers. Both her daughter and her had cancer and her daughter at the time was very young, under 25yrs if I remember right. Anyhow she moved fast to preserve a change of having a baby and her and her husband froze embryos, so later they could try. She was actually 4 months prego when I met her!!! AMAZING!! Went through a double mastectomy, chemo, radiation and now she was prego and healthy!!! Miracle!!!! Now her mother, Barb, talking to me, standing there telling me she only here because of God's strength. The same verse on my bands...Phil 4:13. She's been diagnosed with 4 different types of cancers..she will never be "cured" I think they gave her a timeline, but I don't believe in those. God's time is God's time, so when that is what I go by. She told me that I touched her and she would be praying for me...I told her the same. Later that week, I got an email from the site: 

Miracles. All around. Not "our" miracles we think up for God...real ones. Maybe I was their miracle that day...not my hair...just the presence of Jesus causing a divine intervention. God can cure ANYONE and EVERYONE- so I'm praying for a miracle for my friends now, for their health! For a CURE to cancer so they can live:)

God is Able....& he won't fail. ~ Smokie Norful

XO

Nicole

Chemo-NO!

Two more days: Chemo again. 

That is all that floods my head today. Chemo is in two more days. I have such a long treatment plan, it can't mess with me like this each time? Or will it? Was it so bad? Yes. It was...It was fatigue, massive nausea, stomach pains and hot sweats at day & night. It was that bad. I dread the next session. I remember pulling into an empty parking lot before, even getting on the freeway, asking Daniel for nausea medication just leaving the cancer center. Being nauseas is NOT fun at all. I remember praying in the night for other people because I was trying to get my mind off of me. I literally can cry thinking of Chemo...my Daniel won't be by my side this time, but my mom will. They are my two warriors. My top two fighters. I thank God for them both so much- He's loves me so much to bless me with both of them. They both share such a huge place in my heart.

It's not easy to have a love fighting through cancer. I know it's hard for my Daniel to see me sick in bed and have to wake me to give me medication. I know it's hard for him to hear people's opinions on how to love someone sick. I know it's got to be equally as hard to have a daughter sick, and have to hold her hand when she cries, telling her it will be okay. My mom has a such strong faith in our Jesus Christ, she leans on Him daily as she too suffers from a condition. Hives for unknown reasons. I pray for her daily to be healed in Jesus Name. There is only so much one can take. God knows how much we can handle, it's hard to realize just how much that is sometimes. 

These verses are so uplifting to me at this time...I wrote this blog post out of fear and as I researched and read through my bible, I ended up encouraging myself!! See how God works!! Lol. He touched me. I'm not afraid. He gave my faith a boost and my strength in Him feels incredible right now. He just reminded me that I'm not going through this alone, and He's right there by my side helping me beat this. That nothing is impossible with God's strength (that is my message on all my bracelets people have been wearing...reminding me that He's got my back!!) And all the people wearing the bracelets, he's got their back's too:)  I will lean on the Lord and not be tired or weary...that I will be renewed!!! and I will soar on wings like eagles and run and not grow weary and walk and not be faint! This is everything I needed for my next Chemo battle!! I AM ready!

XO 

Nicole

• Anything is possible through the Strength of God

Philippians 4:13 NIV 
I can do everything through him who gives me strength 

Psalm 119:28 NIV 
My soul is weary with sorrow; strengthen me according to your word.

Isaiah 40:29 NIV
He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak

• God will uphold you in his right hand

Isaiah 41:10 NIV
So do not fear for I am with you, do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand

Romans 5:2 King James Bible
By whom also we have access by faith into this grace wherein we stand, and rejoice in hope of the glory of God.

Psalms 68:19 King James Bible
Blessed by the Lord, who daily loadeth us  with benefits, even the God of our salvation. Selah.

Mathew 11:29 New Living Translation
Take my yoke upon you. Let me teach you, because I am humble and gentle at heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 

•  God will not give you more than you can handle

1 Corinthians 10:13 NIV 
No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it.

• Who is your source of Strength?

Psalm 18:32-34 NIV
It is God who arms me with strength and makes my way perfect. He makes my feet like the feet of a deer; he enables me to stand on the heights. He trains my hands for battle; my arms can bend a bow of bronze.

• Do not be afraid

Psalm 27:1 NIV
The Lord is my light and my salvation- whom shall i fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life- of whom shall I be afraid?

• Lean on God and you will not be tired

Isaiah 40:31 NIV
but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on the wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint

• Love of God brings strength

Mark 12:30 NIV
Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength

Mi Familia!

June 1st, 2013

Mi Familia

My Mr. Carter

It's been a while...It's hard to know where to open...I feel like I'm been in a daze of chemo, medication, nausea, sleep and all in between there tons of love and support, that wraps me up like a baby. I'm definitely taken care of in so many ways...so many wonderful ways. But I really can't say enough, about my man Daniel...but let me just paint a picture for you (as it literally makes me tear up, typing his love for me, and how he shows it). 

Not a day goes by regardless of how bad I look or feel that he doesn't hug me and kiss my head telling me this is just a "test" and I'm "passing". He continues to pray with me and for me and shares amazing gospel songs (that get stuck in my head for days) to encourage me through the word. He's there. And when I mean he's there...he sets his alarm every 4 hours to make sure I'm taking my medications. Around the clock-no complaints. And after each session of medication- he hugs me and I hug him, and say "I love you....Thank you baby." There's a very genuine love we have for each other, that is getting stronger through this journey. They say "...through thick and thin, & in sickness and in health..." but you don't expect to start your marriage life that way? We are not yet engaged,but in spirit we are far beyond becoming one in Jesus. He's truly my other half and I know and believe that with all my soul. I long for the day to become, Mrs. Carter.

He helps my mom around the house-does the simple things that help-like load the dishwasher, or pick up an area that needs attending. He's helpful with both girls, making sure they are on top of there homework, but spends quality time with them playing board games and making them laugh. It's a balance we've needed for so long. I've never been one to get so emotional over someone loving me...but when you see how dedicated and how real he is about loving me and being here for me, it's emotional. Everyone of my family that has been here over the past month, has left, sending me a text about what a stand up man he is, and how they are so happy he's in my life...it's so obvious he loves you and we are so happy you have him.

We try to watch movies (in/out of my chemo coma's, but regardless of what I need-he's there ready to be with me and spend time with me. The other day we just went and sat outside on the deck, to get some fresh air, and it was lovely. Being with him does something to my soul. God knows who you're soul is supposed to be paired up with...and when that match happens...you "just know".

Daniel you continue to amazing me. You're selfless and amazing. Each time you come to my room I'm so thankful to see your face and have you hold my hand to take each medication. You sit on the edge of my bed making sure I'm okay before you lay back down. There are not to many words that can express my love for you baby. But I can't wait to celebrate the rest of our lives together, so I can show you. We have so much to live for and each day of me getting better, draws us closer to our lives together. We all need you. I see the kids happier with you here as well- their attitudes and sense of well-being is better to have you protecting us. You are showing them what a real man is...one that takes care of his family, not by just working, but by loving and showing us all love.

The way you interact with my family is amazing as well. Always willing to lend an ear or a helping hand. I appreciate you Papa Bear so much. Always know that, & never forget it.

I love you more, than all the waves of the sea....Mama Bear

Chem-OH-therapy

What is chemotherapy? 

Chemotherapy (also called chemo) is a type of cancer treatment that uses drugs to destroy cancer cells.

How does chemotherapy work? 

Chemotherapy works by stopping or slowing the growth of cancer cells, which grow and divide quickly. But it can also harm healthy cells that divide quickly, such as those that line your mouth and intestines or cause your hair to grow. Damage to healthy cells may cause side effects. Often, side effects get better or go away after chemo is over.

What does chemotherapy do?

Depending on your type of cancer and how advanced it is, chemo can 

• Cure cancer- when chemo destroys cancer cells to the point that your doctor can no longer detect them in your body and they will not grow back. (This is what God is going to do, CURE ME, in Jesus mighty NAME!) 
• Control cancer-keeps cancer from spreading, slows its growth, or destroys cancer cells that have spread to other parts of your body.
• Ease cancer symptoms-shirnks tumors that are causing pain or pressure

How is chemotherapy used?

Sometimes, chemo is used as the only cancer treatment. But more often, you will get chemotherapy along with surgery, radiation therapy, or biological therapy. Chemo can:

• Make a tumor smaller before surgery or radiation therapy. This is called neo-adjuvant chemotherapy.
• Destroy cancer cells that may remain after surgery or radiation therapy. This is called adjuvant chemotherapy (My cancer was removed on 4.24, so this is the type of chemo I will receive, to destroy any cancer cells that may remain.)
• Help radiation therapy and biological therapy work better.
• Destroy cancer cells that have come back (recurrent cancer) or spread to other parts of your body (metastatic cancer).

How does my your doctor decide which chemotherapy drug to use?

• The type of cancer you have. Some types of chemo drugs are used for many types of cancer. Other drugs are used for just one or two types of cancer. (I received a Muger heart test to show that my heart is healthy. From a surgical standpoint I'm healing very well- even though I have massive nerve damage/pain- this does not delay starting chemo...due to the type of cancer I had removed (which was a very aggressive one) they do not want to delay treatment.)
• Whether you have had chemotherapy before.
• Whether you have other health problems, such as diabetes or heart disease. 

Where do you go for chemotherapy?

I will have my treatments at Providence Regional Cancer Partnership in Everett, WA

My doctor and nurse will watch for any side effects and make any needed drug changes, if necessary. I can have visitors during treatments, and bring snacks since my treatments will take 2-3 hrs per visit.

How of often will you receive chemotherapy?

Treatment schedules for chemo vary widely. How often and long you get chemo depends on:

• Your type of cancer and how advanced (My diagnosis was: Breast cancer, Stage IIIA, left infiltrating ductal cancer)
• The goals of treatment (TO CURE)
• The type of chemotherapy
• How your body reacts to chemotherapy

I'm receiving chemo in two phases:

Phase one: Adriamycin + Cytoxan every two weeks for 4 treatments

(after each treatment I will return the following day, to get an injection to help increase my white blood cells count)

Phase Two: Taxol weekly for 12 weeks

How is Chemotherapy given?

I will have intravenous (IV) there the chemotherapy goes directly in my vein. I received a power port during surgery (placed under my skin that they will use to draw blood, give IV, and use for chemo treatments)

I will be undergoing chemo until October of 2013-I will have 4 weeks off after completing the treatments, before I start radiation therapy.

There are a ton of side effects to chemotherapy & each drug has different side effects. The most common are: (yet I plan on not having any of these!! Thank you Jesus!)

• Low blood count
• hair loss (People say I have a cute face, and this shouldn't be a problem lol)
• fatigue
• nausea (I have 6 different anti-nausea medications to use during treatment!!)
• loss of appetite
• diarrhea
• stomach pain
• changes in skin color/nail color
• missed menstrual periods
• mouth sores
• red or watery eyes (Only Adriamycin)
• red colored urine (Only Adriamycin)
• bone pain (Taxol)
• sweating (Taxol)
• muscle or joint pain (Taxol)

There are many warning signs to advice the doctor and lists of things to watch for during treatment. I have a 24hr on-call line to receive medical advise and/or attention. One main side effect is watching for fever. If my temperature goes above 100.5 then I have to call in right away before taking a fever reducer. This is due to infection and they will monitor this very closely.

How will I feel after chemotherapy?

It affects people in different ways. How you feel depends on how healthy you before treatment, your type of cancer, how advance it was, and the kind of chemo you're getting. Some people do not feel well right after chemotherapy. The most common side effect is fatigue, feeling exhausted and worn out. Doctors & nurses cannot know for certain how I will feel during chemo.

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Continue to Pray for me during this time. I'm still healing from surgery (3 weeks post-op this week), and I'm suffering from severe nerve damage and restricted range of motion. I started physical therapy last week and have already completed 3 sessions. Peggy said I'm getting better each time, but it's very painful and difficult. I have to be able to put my arm overhead for radiation, so getting my range of motion back is very important. 

I continue to pray all throughout the day. Some days I'm more emotional then others, but I trust God will bring me through. I'm thankful for my loving family and friends- always encouraging me! God sends me a smile everyday in some way, shape or form. I love the LORD for that!! He's always watching out for me, and he remembers to make me smile.

I need more SLEEP! I just have been taking naps here and there- ever since surgery due to pain, it's very hard for me to fall asleep. Pray for the pain to decrease and my sleep in increase. I long to be comfortable. Thank you for all your prayers, they do work! 

I'm loving how many people are now saying "Fight! Pray! Win! It's so encouraging:) I see so many wearing the wristbands and T-shirts- It makes my heart smile. It's now a movement that will continue even after I'm cured to help encourage others. It's 5:06am so I'm going to ice my shoulder and try to get an hour of sleep...God Bless! 

Fight. Pray. Win.

XO

Nicole

Sound the alarm

Trapped in my skin-
Pain bleeds down my
Stitches if you could 
Hear the screams within-
Each breath breaks glass, 
Fast, like cars speeding
over the Overpass
I'd PASS
on this felony at large-
I'd PASS
on this death row charge!
Each tumor was sweatin'
All 15 enlarged, life threatenin'
Surgeon's came in blastn'
Them out of my arm-
Sound the alarm
Handicapp'n
Caps in hands and
Hands smashin' 
things that sting-LOUD
Rage against the machine
I'm onto the next scene
Tumors fall down dead
We have the victory-no tears shed
No way to get my veins-
No more ball & chains 
No more mental strains
Just biopsy boxes- unclean
with labels of toxic green
No more oxygen to increase
The lean on me-
No more power to devour me
Surgeon's Decapitate each
Cancerous Enemy
No strings attached
And I'm detached from 
My tissue
Eliminating disease
My left breast 
But not my left chest
Stands proud
Although indents 
Of my Existence remain
I faint at the sight
of my resistance 
I thank God-
for the scars & stitches
Cancer is gone 
Even my left armpit 
Still sweats
But not from Fear
Hair still grows there
It looks unfair
For my body to be compared
I do care- 
I scream at my tears
I scream at my marks
But they can't blind my eyes dark
Pill after Pill 
I refill- & Holy Water spills
Overflowing grace that I can feel
My mouth that tastes like medical bills
How many milligrams of numb at 2pm?
Then 40 milligrams of numb at Noon?
Okay, That's cool-
I'm sitting here in a 
Square, naked bare
Pressed up against the wall
Pain hard to Bare
I'll sit here pressed up
Against my hair 
soon to fall 
Beneath the chair-
Peace fills me because
God's hands cover my 
Body's unfamiliar flare
No Complaints
All Praise-
God's plans better days
than these days of pain
Down here-
My eyes see haze
& sometimes I hallucinate 
Seeing a shadow of pain 
That follows me-
I'm sooooo sleepy
I dream of my reality
them my arm is my alarm 
waking me at 12:03
My neck itches
Each hour passes
My badge of honor heals
yes, my port under my skin
And the scars within
is my medal to show 
that I WILL WIN! 
Time constraints 
As I lay awake-
I pray to God 
for a good night's sleep 
Please arrive & please stay
Because, honestly 
I've really got
Nothin' left to say.

3:29am 

XO

Nicole 

Thank you Kels!

Huge S/O to my good friend, Kels, Thank you girl for putting the website together 
& getting the "Fight. Pray. Win." T-shirts together! Visit: www.fightpraywin.com 

YOU ROCK GIRL-LOVE YOU:) Hoodies exclusive club!

YOU SO FLY, SO FLY-Y-Y-Y-Y TAE!

LEE LEE STUN'N ON EM! WHERE'S J.SMITH AT? LOL.

I LOVE MY HOODIE-NEED SHOES TO MATCH:)

LOVE MY FAMILIA REP'N 4 ME:)

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